I have been doing my best to blog every Wednesday, give or take a few days. I have decided to take a mini holiday break to spend the time with my family. I am going to be back to blogging at the beginning of 2013. The holiday season is very special to me and to my family. There are many traditions that are important to us, that at times can be time consuming, but well worth every minute.
Over the last two days, I have presented to a DUI training class. Where law enforcement individuals are being trained on the risks of driving while under the influence. I was asked to present the story of my husband, that was killed by a drunk driver. I shared how the drunk driver’s decision changed my children and my lives forever. I was a little nervous, but overall it went well. I do need to work on more eye contact with the class. I think what this group is doing is great!
It’s the first Wednesday of the month and you know what that means…Widowed Blog Hop!
Life is full of surprises. There are moments when you feel like nothing good will come of it and others when a light shines on given opportunities. I asked myself quite often how I can change or influence others in a good way. How I can take the death of my husband and use it to benefit others. This may sound like a “crazy” question, but that is what goes through my mind. I want other widows and widowers to not feel alone in their grief. Don’t get me wrong, it is a journey that you will get through on your own but we all need support. I feel blessed that I have been able to connect with some great people who have something in common with me. And that’s losing their spouse.
We are all in different places in our journey, but have taken a step forward in our life story without our spouse. The support you get from someone who has been down your path or some variation of it is irreplaceable.
I want to commend all of the men and women that take the time to give us a glimpse of their reality. The words they share can bring a whole realm of emotions and that is when you know it is written honestly from the heart.
We have some new participants this month and I encourage all of my readers to check out what they have been doing and posting.
For ease, below is the list of participants in the hop.